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Communication Tips

Saturday, October 4th, 2008

Communication Tips

Communication is a vital part of our lives: a typical day involves many interactions between ourselves, our work colleagues and clients, our children, our friends, our ex’s, future relationships, etc. This interaction takes place where we live, work, relax, socialize and wherever we perform routine tasks.

Communication skills are critical for building healthy relationships, especially when one realizes that one of the most common causes of relational breakdown is a lack of communication. Just as communication can be the most important part of a relationship; arguments can be the most destructive aspect - the closer we are to someone, the more easily we can bruise or be bruised. There is very little truth in the saying: “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never harm me.” It’s not what we say, but rather how we say it, that most often hurts another person.

Do you identify with any of these statements?

  • “He never listens to me when I talk!”
  • “She talks and talks, but never actually says anything!”
  • “It’s like talking to a brick wall”
  • “I can’t get through to you”
  • “We can’t talk about anything important without getting into a fight”
  • “She’s too emotional - she’s either crying or shouting or complaining. It’s easier to avoid her”
  • “He always gets defensive when I try to talk about issues” 

Communication is a complex process; of which speaking only makes up for 10-20%. The other 80-90% is made up by facial expressions, body language, tone of voice, etc.

Communication is the art/ science of transferring a thought/ idea/ information from the mind of one complex human being to the mind of one or more complex human being(s). For communication to be effective, it must be a two-way process.

Dynamics of Interpersonal Communication

1. Facts: are both people communicating about the same set of facts? Try to separate the facts from thoughts or feelings.

2. Interpretations, Thoughts or Perceptions: Each person interprets a fact differently based on their belief system, personality, values and experience.

3. Feelings: how we are feeling, our current mood and frame of mind, etc can sub-consciously affect decisions and thoughts.

4. Intentions, Needs or Wants: hidden agendas; are we looking for comfort, clarification, information or simply a chance to interact? We judge ourselves on our intentions.

5. Actions: choice of words (is the intent to create harm?) + tone of voice + non-verbal speech = body language, posture, eye contact, facial expressions, etc. “The medium is the message” => the way the message is delivered is the message itself.

6. Self: The communication centre, which includes the issue, topic or conflict at hand, has been “filtered” by the facts, interpretations, thoughts, feelings, intentions, and choices of behaviour / actions.

Listening and Feedback

Did I say what I meant to say? - Invite feedback to clarify communication.

Someone who’s not listening lets their mind drift and is already preparing the next argument or opposing thought; inaccurate feedback or limited eye contact.

Listening is an active, not a passive process. When two people argue, they only hear “what they want to hear”, not what’s actually said. This equates to the accusation of “not listening”. Most couples start arguing and within 5 minutes are arguing about the way they are arguing.

Don’t argue when you’re angry - you will not be able to listen objectively. Give yourself time to cool down and then broach the subject when you are in a more reasonable frame of mind.

It’s important to give feedback - checking and confirming. Did I understand you correctly? Is this what you mean? I heard you say this: am I right? Feedback can be verbal / non-verbal e.g. a nod, smile, silence or a cold shoulder. No feedback is in itself a form of feedback.

If the words and actions contradict each other, it is better to believe the actions!

Conflict Resolution

Conflict resolution can either be Constructive or Destructive.

Destructive Style - hinders or inhibits the conflict resolution process:

  • Confrontational (win or lose, blaming)
  • Sabotage (focus on weak points, shaming)
  • Manipulation (blackmail, withdrawal)
  • Giving in (passive, submissive)
  • Avoidance (denial, withdrawal)

Constructive Style – trying to minimize the issues and avoiding the difficulties in resolving the problems:

  • Compromise (meet halfway, understanding)
  • Accommodate (open discussion, communication without confrontation)
  • Partnership (solutions, forgiveness, honesty)

When trying to resolve conflicts, try to clarify your goals, as you will probably share many of the same goals despite of your differences. Avoid bargaining, as this may lead to each party taking a rigid position which in turn can flare tempers.

When resolving conflicts, remember that their causes may run deep. Sweeping issues under the carpet isn’t going to work in the long term, as old baggage will be brought up each time an argument starts. Try to fully resolve each issue as it comes along.

You may find the following method useful:

1. Ask the other person for their feelings. Your conflict probably isn’t about the issue that caused it to start in the first place. Don’t forget that your goal is sorting out the problem, not winning an argument!

2. Ask the other person to define the problem. Stick to solving one problem at a time, that way you can understand each problem as the other person sees it.

3. Express your own feelings. Be careful to word them carefully, for example use phrases such as “I feel…” rather than “I think you…”

4. Define the problem as you see it. As your feelings come out, the solution may become clearer. Remember that by you listening to the other person; you will have set the tone for them to listen to you.

5. Create multiple solutions. Don’t go back to your original agenda. Aim to find alternative or creative solutions that reduce emotions and tension.

6. Rate the possible solutions. Remember that no one can force an unacceptable solution on the other.

7. Combine and create a mutually acceptable solution. Create something acceptable to both parties, if this doesn’t work – go back to step 1 and ensure both parties are being totally honest.

8. Be sure both parties agree to work towards resolving the issue.

Troubleshooting For Problems in Communication

Control or Power Issues: Effective communication cannot take place if one person has “control” over the other or where there is not mutual respect and equality of relationship. To stay in control leads to relational isolation as the underdog reacts in anger at being manipulated or belittled.

Triangulation: Do not bring in a third party to avoid direct confrontation. If you have a problem with someone, go directly to that person. Don’t dump your accusations on mutual friends or your children in the hope of winning support to balance the scales in your favour - it leads to more substantial and long-lasting damage, especially when a child is used as a weapon between parents.

19 Steps to Effective Communication

1. See communication as an opportunity to praise, build-up, affirm, heal, support and give positive reinforcement, rather than to correct, criticise, tear down, hurt, wound, lash out at. Praise opens doors to further communication, while criticism shuts them down.

2. Remember that actions speak louder than words; non-verbal communication usually is more powerful than verbal communication. Avoid double messages in which the verbal and the non-verbal messages convey something contradictory. (Credibility gap)

3. Define what is important and stress it; define what is unimportant and de-emphasise or ignore it. Avoid fault-finding.

4. Communicate in ways that show respect for the other person’s worth as a human being. “Avoid statements which begin with the words “You never …” or “I think you …”.

5. Be clear and specific in your communication. Avoid vagueness.

6. Be realistic and reasonable in your statements. Avoid exaggeration and sentences which begin with “You always …”

7. Test all your assumptions verbally by asking if they are accurate. Avoid acting until this is done.

8. Recognize that each event can be seen from different points of view. Avoid assuming that other people see things like you do. (Perception)

9. Recognize that your family members and close friends are experts on you and your behaviour. Avoid the tendency to deny their observations about you – especially if you are not sure.

10. Recognize that disagreement can be a meaningful form of communication. Avoid destructive arguments.

11. Be honest and open about your feelings and viewpoints. Bring up all significant problems even if you are afraid that doing so will disturb another person. Speak the truth in love. Avoid sullen silences.

12. Do not put down and/or manipulate the other person with tactics such as ridicule, interrupting, name-calling, changing the subject, blaming, bugging, sarcasm, criticism, pouting, guilt-inducing, etc. Avoid the one-upmanship game.

13. Be more concerned about how your communication affects others than about what you intended. Avoid getting bitter if you are misunderstood.

14. Accept all feelings and try to understand why others feel and act as they do. Avoid the tendency to say, “you shouldn’t feel like that.”

15. Be tactful considerate and courteous. Avoid taking advantage of the other person’s feelings.

16. Ask questions and listen carefully. Avoid preaching or lecturing.

17. Do not use excuses. Avoid falling for the excuses of others.

18. Speak kindly politely and softly. Avoid nagging yelling or whining.

19. Recognize the value of humour and seriousness. Avoid destructive teasing.

Final Summary

As you look ahead to new relationships, you need to be able to break old and faulty communication patterns to allow for healthier interaction. The use of praise and positive reinforcement will reconstruct wounded and broken self-images and will build self-esteem, particularly in children. By becoming an effective communicator, you will also grow and become a better person which will positively enhance all your relationships.  

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Are You Satisfied Using Penis Enlargement Pills?

Friday, September 12th, 2008
Are You Satisfied Using Penis Enlargement Pills?

Penis enlargement pills have been around for some years now, so how do the customers feel about the top penis enlargement pills? How many clinical trials of penis enlargement pills have been conducted and what were the results? Are there any side effects of penis enlargement pills? And where can you find decent, unbiased guides for penis enlargement pills?

The most disturbing fact about these pills is that there are no independent clinical trials to prove or disprove their claims. And I do believe that a lot of us would wait in line to participate in a serious clinical trial to see if a penis enlargement pill can add some extra inches where we need them. I for one would volunteer in a blink of an eye.

As clinical trials of penis enlargement pills are nowhere to be found, you just have to take their word for it that the pills will help you achieve your goals.

Penis enlargement pills do not, in any way, perform as advertised by most manufacturers. They are a mixture of various herbs known for enhancing libido and increasing circulation. The temporary increase in circulation may result in harder erections, fooling the user into believing that actual growth is occurring.

But then again, would you want to be the plaintiff in a lawsuit against a marketer who makes outrageous claims of penis enlargement? The good news is that not all your money is spent for nothing! These self appointed top penis enlargement pills are often delivered with instructional leaflets on penis enlargement exercises, which would work in the absence of the pills.

This is an important clue on what to do next: find a good traction device and start exercising! This should be the first advice in a good guide to penis enlargement pills: read the exercises leaflet very careful. It’s really not surprising that people following the exercise while taking pills are gaining, a placebo would work.

There are formulations from reputable suppliers that claim only to increase libido and contain much the same ingredients, often of better quality and so much cheaper! Now that you know they don’t work, you will be concerned with any side effects of penis enlargement pills.

Plant extracts may have serious side effects, even if they are all natural. As with almost anything, a small dose won’t do any harm, a larger dose will have some effects and an overdose will be poisonous.

Penis pills contain a variety of plant extracts and, unfortunately, there is little or no research on the effects that combination of different substances may have on human body. Most of these plant extracts are used because they are thought to improve blood flow and increase arousal and libido.

There is no chemical known to mankind – be it naturally occurring or lab created that can increase the size of your penis permanently. You can try them, if you really feel the urge to do so, but I do consider you have much better options: like finding a good exercises program or buying an enlargement device that will help you even more to get results.

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Best Methods for Penis Enlargement

Tuesday, August 26th, 2008

Trying to find the most effective and popular penis enlargement solution on the Internet can be a bore or a frightening trip to the dark side, depending on your patience and level of expertise in using search engines. A simple search will yield millions of websites and it’s pretty clear from the start that you can’t go through them all. That’s why we decided to make a short list containing the most effective penis enlargement solutions, while also being mindful of their popularity among users. After all, who could be better informed than the user himself?

If you have already tried doing your own research before reading this article, then you are probably familiar with names like ProSolution Pills, Semenax, ProExtender, ProEnhance, OptimRX, MaxiDerm, VigRX, Magna RX, SizeGenetics, Elongate Pro, Herbal Vivid, and Volume Pills. The question is, of course, which one of them is good for you.

The penis enlargement solutions are also split into several categories, based on their effects and methods. For instance, Volume Pills and Semenax are pills that focus on increasing the volume of sperm produced by the body. They both boast an impressive array of herbal and chemical ingredients, such as Zinc, Bladderwrack, Catuaba Bark and Solidilin. However, it seems that users find Volume Pills to be the more popular of the two and, more important, the one to work better and quicker. Also, the 6-month money back guarantee offered by Volume Pills is far superior to the 7-day return window at Semenax.

The simplest and most straightforward are those designed for pure penis enlargement. The most popular of the lot seem to be ProSolution Pills, VigRx, Elongate Pro and Herbal Vivid. In terms of popularity, VigRx and ProSolution Pills are battling for the top spot with ProSolution Pills slightly in the lead. This slight lead is due mainly to the Extra Strength formula and the bonus free access to penis enlargement exercises that help the pills work faster.

Vimax Extender, SizeGenetics, Jes Extender and ProExtender are penis enlargement systems based on the use of a traction device. Users are split over the effectiveness of these systems, but even a cursory glance shows that SizeGenetics comes with an astounding set of bonuses. Aside from the traction device, SizeGenetics customers also get the ProSolution enlargement pills, the Volume Pills we discussed above and access to a website featuring enlargement exercises. What more could one ask? Also, we advise you to stay away from penis pumps, since this type of devices carry a high risk of damaging the penis.

Another approach to penis enlargement is the transdermal patch. Transdermal Patches are used to deliver ingredients directly into the blood flow, through the skin. The best-known products in this category are ProEnhance, Power Enlarge, Virility Patch and Maxi Derm. However, Virility Patch and Power Enlarge contain the controversial ingredient Yohimbe, which has a history of unpleasant side effects. A good rule of the thumb is to stay away from all products featuring this ingredient. Maxi Derm also lost out on customer popularity because of the 7-day product return window, which is really beyond many people in various countries. This leaves us with ProEnhance as the hands-down winner of this particular category.

And at the end come the penile exercises. These are the “do it yourself” approach to penis enlargement and do not require any traction device or male enhancement or penis enlargement pills. There are several websites around offering access to exercises, chief among them Penis Health, Penile Fitness, Penis Development and the Ultimate Penis Enlargement Guide. The websites are popular among their customers, although Penile Fitness is much more expensive than the others. The biggest range of exercises are available on the Penis Health website, which we recommend as the best out there.

Since I’ve personally tested SizeGenetics, ProSolution Pills, Volume Pills, and ProEnhance Patchs, I can only personally recommend those products.

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Tuesday, August 19th, 2008

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Penis Enlargement Pill Information

Monday, March 17th, 2008

Penis enlargement pills are mixtures of herbal supplements pulverized into refined powder and then made into capsules.

How do these pills work? In what way do they promise to increase the length or size of the penis? Can a penis grow any bigger as you age?

One basic thing to know about the penis is that it involves no muscle contractions to make it erect. Instead, the penis utilizes pressure. Pressurized blood is what causes an erect penis.

Letís discuss the penis structure to clearly illustrate how an erection occurs.

There are three chambers. Two of the three chambers are known as Corpora Cavernosa (erectile tissue), which are located on the dorsal side and the other one is called Corpus Spongisum, which is situated at the ventral side. The latter contains the urethra and meatus, which are passages for urine and for the discharge of semen. Corpus Spongisumís main function is for urination and ejaculation.

Now, when a man is sexually stimulated, his brain sends out a hormone, and this hormone brings blood rushing to his penis through the penile arteries. The blood goes directly to the tissue lining the Corpora Cavernosa, which will then be filled up to its optimum capacity causing the penis to erect.

What determines a man’s penis size is the amount of blood his erectile tissue can hold. This theory suggests that a larger penis size can only be obtained by enlarging the penisí tissue chambers.

Now this is the same thing a male enhancement pill does. Natural penis enlargement pills contain organic herbal ingredients like ginseng that rejuvenate the promotion of a stronger blood flow to the penis during sexual excitement. This increase in blood flow will then cause the erectile tissues and penile arteries to expand larger than their original size, thus making a rock-hard and slightly larger erection.

Since a significant increase of blood circulation in the arteries produces a more solid and fairly bigger erection, it will also, in due course, bring about the expansion of penile arteries and erectile tissues, which then results to a fuller penis size. This is what natural penis enhancement pills attempt to accomplish.

Most quality male enhancement pills contain the best and scientifically tested powerful aphrodisiac herbal essences that can effectively stimulate and sustain a hard erection. Each ingredient has a direct effect on targeted cells in the penis, which boosts healthier blood passage in the penile area. The meticulous formulation of carefully chosen ingredients provides and maintains a healthy hormone level, intensifies the flow of blood and has effects on the receptive cells around the penis.

Male enhancement pills do not only improve the size of penis, they are also known to help cure common male genitalia problems like erectile dysfunction.

You should be able to notice visible changes within the first few weeks of pill intake. These changes include prolonged and firmer erection, improved and stronger sex drive, and more satisfying climax. The effects will keep on as you continue taking the pills. However, effects vary per product. So, be sure to choose the best, most effective and safest product.

Note: The development of penis typically begins between the ages 10 to 14 years. A study showed that it is at the age of 17 that a penis size normally spikes. A manís concluding penis size can be determined after four to six years following the first apparent enlargement of the testicle. There are instances that a man will have to wait for a year or two after he stops growing vertically to see how big or small his penis will become. The average man has a penis size of around 6.2 inches.

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New Variations In Bed with Lovecentria

Friday, January 18th, 2008
New Variations In Bed with Lovecentria

Routine, boredom and a million other things that get in the way tend to make sex repetitive and unexciting after a while. It’s not that the two lovers plan things this way, but rather the fact that life tends to dampen enthusiasm in the long run. Using the same positions every time and building up an unshakable routine doesn’t help either. I’m not sure why some people think that doing the same thing again and again is a good idea, but they are wrong. Everybody needs a little variation in his or her life, including in the bedroom department.

And variation can easily and delightfully be achieved by learning new sex positions. Far from being nothing but frills, positions are actually a great way of making the other feel your love. Changing positions during sex allows the two lovers to play with each other and to find new ways of getting and giving pleasure. If you feel that sex is getting stale, but love is still strong, then you simply have to learn some new sexual positions and bring a little variety in the bedroom. And if you don’t know where to turn to find the best information on new positions, the answer is quite simple: Lovecentria.

Lovecentria has one of the most comprehensive databases of sex hints, tips and information on the Internet and, naturally, a whole section dedicated to sex positions. From the most mundane to the most exotic ones, we have them all accompanied by both text and incredible 3D animations that you can use to make sure you learn them right and make no embarrassing mistakes. It’s true that getting it right the first time is pretty hard, but trying and failing is not that bad if both partners get to see the fun side. Learning new positions can really strengthen the bond between two people.

Browsing the list of new positions together and choosing the ones you are going to use in a couple of minutes can be a very sexy experience for both partners. Just think of all the pleasure lying ahead of you and focus on the fact that you are about to enjoy a great night and never worry that things might turn out wrong. You’re just beginning to learn new positions so there’s no reason to feel bad over a fumble, especially if the end result is mind blowing. Also, a really good idea is to try a decent number of positions in order to understand how they work.

The Lovecentria team has put together even more video and written guides that can add immensely to your knowledge and turn you into the ultimate lover. The entire website is packed with information that can help you understand what women think about men and how they see sex and what they like both in bed and in life. New sex positions may well turn out to be just the beginning of your acquaintance with the Lovecentria website and you may find yourself returning time and again to read on other topics of interest.

If you are interested in having a more exciting and exotic sex life then Lovecentria has it all for you, with 75 incredible 3D sex animations that you can control. Learn all these positions to become a bona fide sex god. To find out more, click here.

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ProEnhance Patch Test Results and Info

Thursday, October 20th, 2005

Here’s some information about the ProEnhance patch for those interested.

Are you tired of trying this and that methods when it comes to enlarging your penis to satisfy your partners? Do you want to rock harder than before? Then, this is your chance to grab that chance of a lifetime. It is never too late to use a single patch that can make your penis to get larger. While other methods do it good, ProEnhance does it better.

ProEnhance was developed to offer a safe, reliable and effective way of helping you enlarge your penis. ProEnhance has blended the ancient herbal awareness, latest technology, and their team of researchers to come up with a product that could guarantee success. This method will give you the latest knowledge and oldest wisdom in one package.

From the start, the company that provides ProEnhance had seen the need. Aware that several men are unable to adequately satisfy their lover, ProEnhance was developed with the knowledge that what these men are experiencing are out of their control and are never their fault. Whether by size men have small or average penis, this treatment will be of big help.

Through extensive research, they have come up with a variety of herbal agents that are actually exhibiting potential factors that can affect the size of the penis. The different herbs can drastically alter the penis size. Herbal agents include: Damiana, Fo-Ti, Gotu Kola, Saw Palmetto and Menthols. Menthol is the one responsible in preparing the skin for nutrients absorption while the rest are nutrient providers.

Since the components are 100 percent natural, you can totally enjoy the advantage of a larger penis, without suffering from unwanted side-effects! ProEnhance is dedicated to your triumph over small or average penis and back this with a 100 percent guarantee and 24 hour support.

ProEnhance patch method is approved by experts. It is made in a cGMP-Certified Pharmaceutical Facility that is merged with the latest technologies and earliest herbal awareness to supply you the most efficient and successful patch there is. Being 100 percent natural and independently tested, ProEnhance patches were found to post no harm unlike the others and the keenest blend of herbs in the market.

For several years, ProEnhance has spent researching the different techniques of penis enlargement and found out that 90 percent of the systems out in the market do not actually work. The remaining 10 percent still have a need of streamlining to make them work better.

What other system lacks, ProEnhance compensates and completes. ProEnhance has taken all of the ways to increase the size of the penis, tossed them in a pot, and distilled them to only the most effective and express working methods. While some are hopping from one system to another, ProEnhance has taken that undertaking of yours to make the hunting for best system easier. So hunt no more because ProEnhance can deliver.

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Aphrodisiacs: The Libido Enhancers

Wednesday, October 12th, 2005

Diet plays a vital role in increasing sexual urges. In fact, there are foods known as aphrodisiacs that increase the libido. Aside from sexual desires, it is believed that these foods increase the ability of people to have sex. Traditionally, people use different herbs and plants to serve as sexual stimulants. On the other hand, love potions are also available and are used to entice partners in having sex. With the advancement of modern science, a lot of food supplements where invented to increase sexual desires. However, based on experiences, natural food is still considered to be more effective in conditioning the minds of couples towards a sexual engagement. Apparently, a healthy lifestyle is deemed as a better option rather than the usual sex toys.

Spices are known over the world as preservatives and flavorings. In reality, these foods also contribute in psychologically developing sexual desires. The hot sensations caused by chilies are being transported to brain, thus creating a different kind of urge. These foods also increase the heart rate, which normally happens during sex. Another food used as sex boosters are chocolates. Old timers regularly use cocoa powder and make them into drinks before having sex.

The foods that we eat are sometimes equated with the sexual organs. In effect, the foods with similar appearance to the sexual organs are likely to increase sexual urges. For instance, ginseng resembles the human body. In most East Asian countries, ginseng is used not only for physical rejuvenation but also to provide increased libidos. Its effect of strengthening the physical body helps in enhancing sexual desires as well. Another example is the banana, which is quite similar in shape and in appearance with the penis. Accordingly, bananas are effective in affecting the minds of people before having sex. Moreover, bananas contain phosphorus, which is one nutrient that develops desire for sex. Finally, oysters are said to be similar to the female vagina. Eating oysters creates a sensation inside the body, which later on translates to yearning for sex. Oysters contain energy enhancers, which contribute in the development of sexual desires in peoples’ minds.

As time goes, people have re-invented most of the available aphrodisiacs in the market. People have created recipes with its ingredients considered as sexually enhancing. Common aphrodisiac dishes include tomatoes because of the presence of lycopene, which generates sexual desire. In drinks, people mix different sexually enhancing ingredients to further increase the libidos.

Sex is an important part of every couple’s relationship. Such reality explains why people have been very driven in finding the best foods to improve their sexual desires. Notwithstanding the fact that these are cheaper means compared to the regularly used sexual enhancers. Another reason is that these foods are readily available and takes little effort to be produced. Since sex and diet are both important, there is always a good reason to equate both. It means the effect of foods is not only limited to the bodily nourishment. Indeed, some instances prove that food enhances other human activities like sex.

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Penis Medical Conditions, Impotence, and Infirtility

Sunday, September 18th, 2005

Because this site is dedicated to the penis, I decided to include some information on penis medical conditions. If you are suffering from any of these conditions, hopefully my information will help you.

Fertility

In about 40% of infertile couples, the cause of the infertility lies with the males. There are many reasons for male infertility.

Quick Fact

It takes approximately 72-90 days to produce mature sperm. Sperm is produced 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

There are many factors that can decrease or increase sperm production.

Here are just a few:

  • Illness
  • Excessive Caffeine
  • Stress
  • Street and certain Prescription Drugs
  • Some over the counter medications
  • Injury to the testicles
  • Blockage in the Vas Deferens
  • Varicocele
  • Excessive Heat
  • Vitamin Deficiencies

Impotency:

Impotence is the inability of a man either to have an erection or to keep the penis erect long enough to have sexual intercourse. This is a common problem affecting as many as 10 million men in the United States. By the time most men are 40 they have already experienced impotence at some time in their lives.

When just a single incident occurs, the best thing to do is forget about it. Problems arise when this difficulty starts occurring regularly.

According to an article published in early 1993 (review: Morley, 1993), approximately 10 million men in the U.S. have problems with impotence.

Men afflicted with repeated impotence tend to be middle-aged and older, with such a condition most common in men 60 years of age and older. Regardless of the age, however, many men who have this problem can be treated successfully.

Impotence can result from a wide variety of problems. As with any other ailment, when a person begins having this problem repeatedly, he needs to see a doctor. The doctor will want to rule out the possibility of disease, injury, or side effects from medicine.

For example, cardiovascular problems, diabetes, injuries to the spinal column, and side effects from high blood pressure medicine are among the physical conditions that can lead to impotence. An erection occurs when the nervous system activates a rapid increase in blood flow. The vascular muscle in the spongy area becomes engorged with blood and outflow of blood is cutoff. Erection can be elicited by the so-called reflex erection as we see in spinal cord patients, or can be caused by psychogenic stimulation. Numerous sexual stimuli are processed by the brain and transmitted to the penis via the nervous system. In order to get an erection, the blood flow must increase and, at the same time, the blood has to be prevented from leaving the penis.

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SizeGenetics System Used by Doctors

Friday, September 16th, 2005
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As you are probably aware, enlarging your penis can become quite an expensive endeavor. Male Enhancement Pills aren’t cheap and they very offer little in the way of real penis enlargement, when used alone, so you can spend hundreds of dollars only to find you don’t see any positive results without the use of a Penis Traction Device or performing safe penis exercises.

Devices on the other hand are clinically proven to work and are cheaper in the long run, but at $300+ for a device you might still think it’s a bit steep. Well, there is no longer any need to worry about the cost of a bigger penis. For a limited time you can claim the clinically proven and doctor endorsed SizeGenetics penis enlargement device for free!

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It may sound like too good to be true, but I can assure you this really is a 100% free device that is being offered here. You see, people tend to be quite skeptical about devices and only believe they will work when they actually see their penis has grown.

If you buy the device today and take good quality ‘before’ photos then you will be able to claim the device for free. When you have added some inches simply take an after photo and send your testimonial in to SizeGenetics and they will refund your purchase.

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Penis Enlargement Methods

Tuesday, September 13th, 2005

When it comes about the truth about penis enlargement, people think about the spam emails they get daily, credit card scams, and potentially fraud. Itís true that there are some marketers who would stop at nothing to make more money whichever way they can, but that’s not the case for a handful of honest companies that are dedicated to helping men enhance their penis size and sexual pleasure.

There are only a few methods of penis enlargement that actually work. You do need to do your research first since some methods are possibly dangerous and ineffective. So here’s the real deal on penis enlargement and male enhancement , what works and what not:

Vacuum Pumps - They don’t work

Vacuum pumps work by sealing the penis in an airtight tube and removing the surrounding air. The negative pressure then pulls blood (and lymphatic fluid) into the penis and inflates it. The process takes about a minute and the results can be very impressive.

The trouble is, as soon as you remove the tube, the penis wants to revert back to its normal size. You can stop the outflow of blood and lymphatic fluid by fitting a constriction ring around the base of your penis. This generally allows the penis to maintain its expanded girth for a few minutes, sufficient for insertion and at least one change of position before you have to pump it up again.

Because pumps draw blood into the penis and make it swell, they’re useful in the treatment of impotence (erectile dysfunction). This may create the illusion of a larger penis, but the results are not at all permanent. Repeated use can damage elastic tissues in the penis, leading to less-firm erections, pain, and loss of sensation.

Surgery - It does work, but it’s very risky

Penis Enlargement Surgery is the most dangerous and possibly damaging method available. Some surgeons have developed several different enlargement techniques, none of which are endorsed by medical organizations. The American Urological Association, the American Society for Aesthetic Plastic Surgery and the American Society of Plastic Surgeons(ASPS) have all issued policy statements against cosmetic surgical procedures to enhance the penis.

Studies have shown that the majority of men who undergo penis enlargement surgery aren’t satisfied with the results. Surgery may at best add an average of half an inch to the length of the flaccid penis. Surgery may not add any length to the erect penis, but it most likely will have bad side-effects no matter how successful the surgery procedure went.

Following various types of cosmetic penile enhancement surgery, some men have had to undergo additional operations to correct deformities caused by the original procedure. The ill effects include scarring, a shorter penis, hair on the base of the penis, a low-hanging penis, loss of sensitivity
and abnormal fat lumps. Other complaints include impotence (erectile dysfunction), urinary incontinence, and persistent pain.

Then there’s the cost: as much as $10,000 for a typical penis enlargement surgery that doesn’t require additional corrective surgery. Because cosmetic surgery is seldom covered by insurance, you’ll likely have to bear the entire expense.

Penis Exercises - They do work, but it will take some time for results

Penis exercises are a very inexpensive, safe and effective way to enlarge your penis. It’s very possible that this method has been used for hundreds of years for penis enlargement.

Penis exercises work effectively and they come with the added bonus of giving you a lot more than a longer, thicker penis: you will also get to understand your body and its reactions better, which will greatly enhance your sex life.

Traction Devices and Jelqing Devices

These methods are a good way of taking the guess work out of penis exercises! They are much more expensive than just an penis exercise program membership, but they do have better results.

Traction devices and jelqing devices are the deluxe version of penis exercises. By applying the same controlled force and pressure each time you exercise your penis, you will get faster results. If you know you need to see something happening to motivate you to continue, than this option is what you are
looking for.

If you were wondering about penis enlargement, what works and what’s the best way to go about it, now you know and you can make your choice easier.

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Different Aphrodisiacs Throughout History

Sex is an important part in the lives of human beings, whether they lived in the past or the present. It is the reason the race of men has continued until today, and more and more children are being born. Ever since man occupied this earth, they have been thinking of ways to spice up their sex lives by using aphrodisiacs. An aphrodisiac is something that can heighten a sexual act between two people. It can be inhaled or snorted, eaten, applied, or delivered to the body by instruments.

In the early ages, men used animals’ genitalia as aphrodisiacs. They believed that those sexual organs will add pleasure in their sexual act. Early recorded books such as the Kama Sutra, and the Bible tell how those people would boil frog, rams, or goat. Then, they would pour milk in it and sugar to add more flavor. Cave drawings of early men displayed pictures of men eating these organs.

During the Elizabethan England, people considered plants as aphrodisiacs when they resembled the shape of the man’s penis. Such vegetables used as aphrodisiacs were asparagus, carrots, mustard, nettles, anise, sweet peas, and even celery. China also had its own aphrodisiac which is ginseng. Because of its shape, the Chinese people also considered it to boost their sexual drives when they wanted to have sex. In the eastern world, they considered something as an aphrodisiac based on its shape, and not the chemical composition.

Some aphrodisiacs were not eaten, but worn by people. Some of these charms were the unicorn’s horn and the St. John Wort’s root. Early people believed that their magic was so powerful that they could not even bring themselves to eat it.

Throughout history, men always invented recipes that could add pleasure in their sex lives. In Europe, they used the theory of Galen that food should be warm and moist for something to be an aphrodisiac. Spices such as pepper were always added in their foods to increase their lust.

In considering food as aphrodisiac, they looked at other theories besides Galen. The early people believed that a Mandrake root would cure the female of her infertility. They based it on the root’s fork-like shape, which looks somewhat like her thigh.

Oysters, which is one of the popular foods today, is also considered to increase the lust of couples. Some people say that it could boost sexual drives because it looked like a woman’s genitalia. Even lizards were eaten because they were thought to have some positive effects on couple’s sexual lives.

Even though potatoes shape are round, early Europeans added them to their aphrodisiac list. The reason for this is that they were a delicacy in the earlier times.

Some of the earlier people based their aphrodisiac lists on Greek mythology. Actually the term aphrodisiac was taken from the goddess name, Aphrodite. She is the goddess of love who considered sparrows as sacred and its brains as aphrodisiacs. Bunnies were also considered as aphrodisiac at that time; hence the creation of the playboy magazines. However, St. Thomas Aquinas has a different thought. He said that aphrodisiac food should have some vital spirit so meat and wine were added to the list.

One of the most popular aphrodisiacs in history was the Spanish fly. Its most effective ingredient is the Cantharidin found on beetle insects. It is said to irritate the genitals and cause sexual arousal.

Nowadays, the most common aphrodisiacs are the pills such as herbal Viagra, It contains some natural ingredients designed to boost the sexual drives of couples. Even if the man is already old, he can still have an erection he could only achieve during his younger days.

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Do you reach climax too fast?

Sunday, September 4th, 2005

Do you reach climax too fast?

Reaching climax too early or too fast robs you and your partner of the pleasure that sexual intercourse can give. This is believed to be the most common sexual complaint of couples. About 29 percent of men are reportedly bothered by these episodes.

There are many reasons why a man “cums” too fast. Biologically, men experience climax much earlier than women. They do so 2-3 minutes after penetration, in contrast to women who take their time (about 12-14 minutes). Likewise, there are also psychological factors that bring about early ejaculation. These include guilt, anxiety (lack of experience), or fear of sexually transmitted infections, potential pregnancy, etc. Older men are also known to be able to control their ejaculation as compared with their younger counterparts. They credit it to their experience.

So, how can you control yourself from ejaculating too quickly? One way is to exercise your PC pubococcygeus) muscle, which is the primary “sexual muscle” that forms part of the pelvis. The PC muscle is largely involved with sexual functions such as ejaculation and orgasm. With regular exercise, this muscle can provide firmer and larger erections, powerful ejaculations and more intense climaxes.

So where is this muscle located? Try stopping the flow of your urine midway. The PC muscle, located between the anus and scrotum, is the one you contracts when you try to stop the flow of your urine.

How to go about exercising your PC muscles? Try clenching and releasing your PC muscle in ten-second periods. Perform three sets of this. Take a breather. Now, try the clench-and-release technique for five seconds. Perform ten sets of this. This time, try tightening the muscle for 30 seconds and relaxing for 30 seconds. Perform three sets of this.

This exercise is rather simple and easy to perform. You can do it by yourself — just about anytime and anywhere. You don’t need any device or contraption to exercise your PC muscle. But, like all penile exercise regimens, you need to commit to a routine devotedly. Famous porn stars, with explosive cumshots, are even rumored to perform these penile exercises faithfully.

So next time you and your partner are making love, try to go inside her and pause for awhile. Don’t move for several seconds; then try tightening and relaxing your PC muscle.

You also have to keep in mind that different women also prefer different types of sex. Some prefer the long and sensual approach; while others favor the pound-pound-pound approach. It’s always better to know your partner’s preference so that you can both enjoy some intimate sexual fun.

Some men decide to use sexual supplements or Viagra to help them last longer in bed. This can be done on top of the PC muscle exercises as described above for more success. Some of these sexually enhancing products are in the form of pills, transdermal patches, lotions, traction devices, and creams.


If you choose to purchase these products, just make sure they offer your money back if you are not satisfied with their product!

If they don’t offer that, then stay away from their products because they probably don’t work. If they really work, they WILL back up their product with a money back offer, Otherwise, they would be out of business:)

Thanks for visiting! More updates and articles will be posted soon.

Steve

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How SizeGenetics can help with Penile Curvature

Saturday, September 3rd, 2005

How SizeGenetics can help with Penile Curvature

Penis curvature is normal, and is considered part of standard human deviation. If you observe your fingers, you’ll notice that probably not all ten of those are straight, either. It’s just normal variation, just as it is normal for women’s breasts to come in all different shapes and sizes or for women’s vulvas to come in lots of different shapes, sizes and colors.

Normal penises can be erect at anything from about 30-45 degrees while there are penises that are stiff enough that the top of the penis almost touches the man’s belly. Sometimes, penises will be erect in slightly different ways at different times, or at different stages in a man’s life. Penis curvature is built a little differently. A woman’s vagina is highly flexible, so it’s not likely that some degree of normally develops simply from the organ’s internal structures growing to unequal size, a condition that’s quite common since every penis curvature in a penis will have any anatomical bearing on intercourse.

However, if your penis suddenly bends after being straight (especially if there is pain involved), or the bend is gradually getting worse, then you should go see a doctor that specializes in menís health (urologist). It could be Peyronie’s disease, which occurs when fibrous tissue develops on the tunica albuginea (the lining of the erectile bodies of the penis). The exact cause of fibrosis is still not known.

The resulting fibrous tissue causes a bend to develop during erection that is painful and can make intercourse difficult or impossible. The condition affects around 388 of 100,000 men and mostly occurs among men between 40 and 60 years and older.

If you are dissatisfied with how your penis looks like, you can try the ground-breaking system being offered by Sizegenetics. This program is based on a combination of four different enlargement methods to promote penis enlargement from every angle possible. While every other program offers you these methods individually, SizeGenetics guarantees success by offering them all in one simple system, thus, giving you the maximum gains possible in the shortest period of time.

First, the use of a penis traction device triggers your penis’s growth function. In order to adapt and adjust to this new force, your body begins to grow bulky, new tissue cells. This translates to an enormous increase in both the length and girth of your penis. Developed by the prominent Spanish urologist Dr. Eduardo A. Gomez de Diego, of Andrology Services, Andromedical Clinic, Madrid, Spain, the SizeGenetics device has been extensively researched and tested to ensure you of its safety and effectiveness. Furthermore, all results are permanent, and once you reach your desired length, the device never needs to be worn again.

The second step in the four-point program of SizeGenetics is the use of ProSolution Pills to enlarge your penis. These ProSolution capsules contain a special herbal formula and sexually-enhancing nutrients to help increase blood circulation to the penile region so penis enlargement can occur.

Aside from increasing the size of your manhood, SizeGenetics also provides you with a way to increase your semen output and fertility by supplying you with VolumePills. The unique blend of ingredients of VolumePills will provide you with the nutrients needed to produce up to 500% more sperm. These ingredients were specifically combined to stimulate sperm and testosterone production in the testicles.

Lastly, included in the SizeGenetics package is access to the Penis Health website, the only site to offer a researched, independently tested and doctor recommended penis enlargement exercises program. By faithfully following the series of penis exercises for a few minutes each day, you can make your penis reach its full potential.

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Stay Away from Penis Surgury

Friday, September 2nd, 2005

A lot of men are preoccupied when it comes to issues concerning their penis, especially the size issue. Though their penis may have a normal structure, the fact remains that bigger is better. A lot of men are hesitant of telling their angst when it comes to the size of their penis, but it is a known issue concerning all men and women in all parts of the globe.

One of the methods men resort to for a larger penis is penile surgery, which usually crop up when all other methods are already used but the condition remains the same — same small penis and same sexual misery.

Are you afraid of the knife? This sounds scary for some men but undergoing penile surgery is a decision they would probably make and follow just to attain better sex life and to satisfy their partner. Traditionally, surgery uses a technique which includes fatty tissue removal from the patient’s own body and then inserting it in to the penis. Fat cells or graft made up of fatty tissue and skin from the buttock tuck. Over time, the results for both are likely to diminish as the fatty tissue is being absorbed by the patient’s own body. Penile surgery may cause certain drawbacks and the most common is the formation of lumps due to fat migration. Surgery through fat-injection could create rather lumpy, asymmetrical and unappealing results instead of what a man wants to attain. The injected fat can migrate to other surrounding parts unpredictably like in the center of the shaft, creating lumps and at times may appear irregularly shaped.

Penis shortening may also occur due to the formation of scar tissue that toughens and shrinks after the operation. Downward erection can happen without the penile supporter called suspensory ligaments. Since the operation might take too long, the patient must be under a general anaesthetic which way lead to more risk. Other problems are bleeding, wound problems and infection.

Forget about the surgery effects. SizeGenetics is now available to ensure its clients with satisfying effect after usage. SizeGenetics offers an unsurpassed program to boost your penis. Carefully designed by medical professionals, it is composed of a traction device, a bottle of volume pills and two bottles of ProSolution Pills. With SizeGenetics, money and time is not rubbished. Aside from costing lesser than other procedures, it also requires the shortest possible time.

The traction device is the piece of equipment that will enhance penis size while continually exposing your penis to pressure. By applying pressure, penile cells multiply which is a normal reaction of cells with pressure.

The Volume Pills will boost your orgasm to the extreme. It has the ability of generating sperms 5 times more than those who do not take them.

The two bottles of ProSolution Pills, through its special ingredients will mind the blood rush in to the penile area or the Corpus Carvenosa.